Mindfield: Be Better than Excuses

Edentu D. Oroso is the head of Special Projects Group for Kakaaki Magazine, a magazine published in Nigeria delving into development journalism. He is a seasoned magazine columnist, biographer, motivational speaker, and poet. A former President of the Writers’ League Benue State University Makurdi, Edentu is a member of the Association of Nigerian Authors (ANA) Benue State Chapter and its former Director of Welfare. His published works include the eBook Tears From A Rose, Wings of Freedom – a biography of Ralph Igbago; and The Alfa Sky, a biography of Air Marshall Ibrahim Mahmud Alfa, Nigeria’s longest serving Chief of Air Staff. He coauthored The Hidden Treasure a compendium of essays on former President Goodluck Ebele Jonathan, and coedited Voice of the Earth, an anthology of poems. He has been featured in many poetry anthologies such Sentinel Online, Bridge for Birds, and Cerebra(lity).

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The World Wrestling Entertainment (WWE) superstar, Bo Dallas, is one guy who has caught my attention and many others with his inspiring messages during and after matches every week. In a wrestling match in recent times, he quipped: “Either in this ring or in life, be better than excuses so you can be a success.” At other times, in his inspirational video clips, he’d ascribed people’s understanding of the word “Impossible” as strictly a matter of perspective. He says unequivocally that by changing our negative perspective of the word “Impossible” it takes on a positive reality, which is, “I’m Possible.” I share totally in Bo Dallas’ sentiments and owe the title of this piece to him: Be better than excuses!

That every human being is potentially gifted and has the ability and capacity to achieve Olympian heights if there’s the willingness to be better than excuses is a truth so fundamental. All you have to do, as Bo Dallas espouses, is believe that “I’m Possible.” Yes, you’re possible! Your auto-suggestion that you’re possible is truly the requisite springboard in the realms of personal power; that which is loftier than excuses because you’ve got that exceptional quality to be a success in any given field of human endeavour. Why then must we perceive limitations on our paths as we listlessly plod down hills or walk briskly through valleys or climb steeply over mountains of life? Aren’t our limitations products of our incessant excuses? Are we just slaves to our mental stations by virtue of the power we exude but which we find hard to express in a positive sense?

Within the domains of our individuality, the taut strings that continually hamper our cherished flight toward the thresholds of unimaginable success are our excuses, often bordering on our perspectives that auto-suggest time after time portraits of impossibilities to the subconscious even where we are inundated by limitless possibilities.

It is hard to find anyone living that has never been bogged down at one time or the other with differing shades of excuses. But there are also many who have dared odds to succeed. And many more for whom windows of opportunities loom into significance in seemingly impossible situations. In our vivid or jaundiced perspectives certainly lies the difference. Every situation has its corresponding vista of opportunity. From the prism of desirable change, an excuse is but a perspective that’s alterable. And every perspective is subject to change given the right frame of mind. Once that perspective alters in the right direction, once that tasking situation is redefined through a fresh vista, the leap of destiny is given the perfect stage and impetus towards the manifestation of one’s dreams.

I’m a lover of professional wrestling and I’ve learned so much from it beyond the thrill it engenders. Through its suspense, intrigues, daring antics and inflections, the kind one gets from the WWE, there’s a metaphoric glare of individual efforts that are better than excuses. I’ve understudied the hype, the shenanigans, the bragging, brevity and mastery of skills wrapped up in professional wrestling. And it stands out as truly inspirational owing to the culture of resilience it evokes. Some people are of the view that everything in professional wrestling is stage-managed. I’d rather disagree with this point of view than accede to it for obvious reasons. The risks are real, even though certain moves, utterances or actions might be feigned. The risks, in their entirety, epitomize those every day hurdles that we come across on our paths and which we strive to overcome.

Weeks prior to Wrestlemania XXX, diminutive Daniel Bryan went through hell literally in the hands of some principal owners of the WWE – notably, Triple H (Hemsley Hunter) and Stephanie McMahon (the daughter of Vince McMahon, the owner of WWE) – who ganged up with some stooges of the authority to ensure he (Bryan) never became the WWE World Heavyweight Champion. Every match that would have taken him closer to the championship belt was either interrupted by Triple H’s buddies or stooges, or the odds staked so high by the authority that it was nigh impossible for Daniel Bryan to even dream of winning those matches. Yet Daniel Bryan was a fighter whose never-say-die spirit or goal-getting attitude could never be damped by mere hurdles or molehills on his path.

The hour of reckoning finally came. It was Wrestlemania XXX, 2014, the biggest sporting extravaganza of them all. Daniel Bryan, considered a “B+” player by his detractors in spite of his “A+” proficiency in the ring, was to feature in the main event. However, WWE’s Chief Operating Officer (COO) Triple H – a 13 times World Champion – gave Daniel Bryan who had never won the championship belt, the opportunity to showcase how good he thought he was. Daniel Bryan’s first opponent on the night of Wrestlemania XXX was none other than the arrogant and vindictive COO, Triple H. According to the stipulations, the winner of the Triple H versus Daniel Bryan match qualifies for the WWE World Heavyweight Championship match (the highest prize in professional wrestling) later that night featuring 6 times World Champion, Dave Batista alias The Animal and 13 times World Champion Randy Orton, alias The Viper.

A day before, to ensure that Daniel Bryan never made it pass the initial match with Triple H, the latter had interfered in a match featuring Daniel Bryan and another wrestler. Triple H deliberately broke Bryan’s left hand with a steel chair out of spite, making his plan to win in their scheduled match in Wrestlemania XXX almost full-proof. So it was unthinkable for the injured Daniel Bryan to face a ferocious and blood-thirsty wrestler like Triple H known by his viciousness as The Game or Regal Assassin and hope to win.

The chants of “Yes!Yes!Yes!” by the multitude of Daniel Bryan’s supporters resonated throughout the arena as they cheered him on. It wasn’t just mere voice calls and hand gestures indicating victory but a wave or movement of positivism started by Daniel Bryan a little over two years ago to affirm that everyone has the power to change his circumstance within the context of the human will, especially in relation to wrestling.

Nudged on by his teeming supporters, Daniel Bryan did the impossible with the broken arm – he fought doggedly and defeated Triple H in an extraordinary match despite the intervention of Triple H’s buddies, Randy Orton and Dave Batista, who didn’t want Bryan to wrestle with them later that night for the championship belt in a triple-threat match. The WWE universe was livid with surprise at Daniel Bryan’s incredible performance. He won against odds. That was just a tip of the iceberg.

At the main event in Wrestlemania XXX, Dave Batista, Randy Orton and Daniel Bryan took the stage. For Daniel Bryan, he had so much at stake. He had just fought in one night a gruesome battle with Triple H, one of the meanest and most skillful superstars in WWE; now he had to take on another two of the finest in the business, still with the broken left arm and still not fully relieved of the exhaustion from the earlier match with Triple H. But the warrior in Daniel Bryan shone through. He neither cowered from the looming danger personified by the duo and the authority, nor did he let his broken arm become the excuse to fail in his attempt to do the impossible – to clinch the coveted WWE World Heavyweight Championship belt – a chance of a lifetime.

The odds were high, yet Daniel Bryan stood tall, fighting like a wounded bull, surmounting all the intrigues brought to play by the authority that never wanted him to win. He won the duo of Dave Batista and Randy Orton in a most historic way in spite of Triple H’s intervention and his injured arm. The world was stunned by his rare feat. Once more, the chants of “Yes!Yes!Yes!” from the WWE universe reverberated, so profoundly. They were proud of this petit wrestler with a broken arm who had defied all odds to the top of the wrestling ladder as the new world champion.

The summary of the event: In one night and with one healthy hand, Daniel Bryan fought three of the finest wrestlers in the WWE and won two of the most coveted belts in history, becoming the WWE World Heavyweight Champion on the grandest stage of it all – Wrestlemania XXX. That feat is simply referred to as being better than excuses.

There was every reason for Daniel Bryan to cringe at the thought of defeat in the hands of Triple H, Dave Batista or Randy Orton, but he didn’t. There was every reason for him to quit with the broken arm even before the matches began, but he preferred the choice to fight on, to be better than excuses. Precisely, that’s what we all need at this moment in our lives…to be better than excuses.

Flip Daniel Bryan’s story and juxtaposition it along your own personal life story. It’s the same old story of you confronting odds every now and then. But then Daniel Bryan was better than excuses. Would you say the same of yourself? Flip the story again in terms of our national aches. Can we easily say we have leaders that are better than excuses? On a personal level, we seem to have excuses for everything gone awry. On the national spheres, the story isn’t different. To turn on new pages in our lives and in our nation, we ought to be better than excuses because that’s when we soar unto glory.

Mindfield: The Character of Change

Edentu D. Oroso is the head of Special Projects Group for Kakaaki Magazine, a magazine published in Nigeria delving into development journalism. He is a seasoned magazine columnist, biographer, motivational speaker, and poet. A former President of the Writers’ League Benue State University Makurdi, Edentu is a member of the Association of Nigerian Authors (ANA) Benue State Chapter and its former Director of Welfare. His published works include the eBook Tears From A Rose, Wings of Freedom – a biography of Ralph Igbago; and The Alfa Sky, a biography of Air Marshall Ibrahim Mahmud Alfa, Nigeria’s longest serving Chief of Air Staff. He coauthored The Hidden Treasure a compendium of essays on former President Goodluck Ebele Jonathan, and coedited Voice of the Earth, an anthology of poems. He has been featured in many poetry anthologies such Sentinel Online, Bridge for Birds, and Cerebra(lity).


Three fundamental aspects define the character of change. They come across as the essence and the extent to which human life is expressed. Within the limits of human experience, these fundamentals have always bordered on identity, mobility, and sustainability. The interplay between these in the right degrees, almost always results in sensibilities that humans perceive as belonging to a finer hue, or what is often regarded as the wheels of meaningful change.

In the annals of history, there is hardly a person or nation that went beyond the borders of mediocrity to the spheres of value-outcomes without truly putting into perspective the values inherent in own identity. As the norm, such an identity naturally seeks to transform itself within the currents of human dynamics through strategic positioning on creative pathways. The significance of an identity, however, is not hinged solely on values but includes as well the currency of constituent elements and their sustainability over time. With this in mind, let us examine the transformative pathways of human actions via identity, mobility, and sustainability.

Identity, a Reliable Currency

At birth, none of us was privileged to have a roadmap to follow through with life. Yet everything we have done, or hope to do, tend to suggest an endless search for self. Actually, it is a search to unravel who we are, where we are, and where we hope to be. Beyond its ordinary meaning, it is indeed a search for an identity. What then is an identity?

It presupposes the fact of being who or what a person or thing is. In broader terms, identity is also a close similarity or feeling of understanding. Who and what a person is goes beyond the physiological, it encompasses the person’s ‘signature strengths’ as well as the elements of the cultural. ‘Signature strengths’ refer to the potential of the individual, or those areas of relative advantage. The elements of the cultural, on the other hand, are those influences or values prevalent in the social milieu in which the individual operates. Often times, it is a combination of these elements of the human identity that translates into the mass character of human actions.

Great minds all over the world, or people who accomplished great feats in the course of history, are all products of unique identities or peculiarities. Their thought processes undoubtedly reckoned with their ‘signature strengths,’ which is who they truly are. Through the conscious expression of their natural capabilities within their cultural milieu, these people became the objects of their desire. The determinants of their outcomes in life, therefore, are not so much a game of chance but the wave of their inner strengths in outward expression. When contextualized in terms of the values and influences evident in such social settings, it becomes glaring that the reality of their being was a blend of the cultural and distinct ‘signature strengths.’ Thus, identity remains the currency they traded in the spheres of life.

It is interesting to note that nations of the world that have attained some level of greatness followed this trajectory at one time or the other. Take the Asian Tigers such as Japan, China, Malaysia, India, Indonesia, for instance. Their rising socio-economic profiles on the global scene are an indication of their conscious efforts to unleash distinct sensibilities on the rest of the world. These sensibilities include the facts of whom and what they are, which has cultural implications, however modified this seem in the context of contemporary realities. What the Japanese and Chinese are exporting to the rest of humanity is not necessarily their expertise but the values inherent in their identities. This is also the case with the advanced nations.   

In the corporate arena, identity remains the stock in trade. Regardless of the name it is called, identity is at the core of corporate survival and relevance. This is what brand, or branding is all about. If anything, the essence of a brand (an identity) is to flaunt the credentials of a corporate entity so as to carve a niche that would withstand the storms associated with competitive environments. The reason for this is quite clear. If you do not sing your song, nobody else will sing it for you. Also, it is recognition of the fact that what you will become tomorrow is determined largely by what you are today.

As individuals striving towards meaningful change, it is of utmost importance for us to realize that whether we had roadmaps with which to tread the paths of life at birth or not, we are still the proud owners of a unique currency we can easily trade to the rest of the world- – our identity. As a nation, we only need the political will to understudy the trajectories other countries took that gave them the edge. By applying the character of our identity in similar directions, we are certain of a unique place in the comity of nations.

Be Upwardly Mobile

According to a wise man, an idea whose time has come is like a freight train that is on the move. It cannot be stopped simply on a whim. The ability to recognize the intrinsic nature of one’s identity and its constituent elements in value-outcomes is likened to a freight train with its load of possibilities. However, fast-tracking the train towards a destination implies engaging gear and guiding it along various trails. This is necessary because life’s journey seldom unfolds with a single terminal. As an identity-seeking creature, the tendency to move from one sphere of experience to the other has always been part of man’s survival instincts. It is indeed man’s notion of progress. Yet it is not enough to be inspired by an identity. It is simply not enough to get the train rolling tentatively if it is not targeted at an outcome. Even when the outcome is specified, a sense of dynamism that clearly reflects the identity must come to bear as a matter of necessity.

Our notions of progress, therefore, are to be a step better than where we were yesterday, with our sights firmly fixed on where we ought to be tomorrow. What this boils down to is to be upwardly mobile; to always take the steps on the paths of life that help us bring out the best of our identity; to rely more often on the value streams of our being in consonance with the dynamics of life.

Most failures in life are as a result of sedentary lifestyles. People in this mold are better described as non-movers. They dream or fantasize about all the good things of life but are never too willing to strive towards the upward paths of their desires. So they remain where they are, overtaken as it were by those who strive to explore and conquer new frontiers. At times, the dreamers even acknowledge the beauty that goes with their identity and talk about their potential in a glowing light. Ironically, that is where their dreams end for they only talk and do little or nothing about their potential.

Strivers achieve what dreamers believe. These are the words of African American entertainer Usher Raymond. But they express the quality of human efforts in relation to the constant stretching of will by those who aim to advance beyond where they are at the moment. It is also a reminder that we appear to be limited by our circumstance because our sights are not fixed farther than enough. We are probably content seeing those things we want to see and never allowing ourselves to see those things we ought to see. We are content being where we are because we are afraid to go further than our already defined latitudes. Yet it is in fixing our sights high and in striving to reach the highest points that our strengths permit that we fulfill most of our dreams. Simply put, the mobility of ideas, or that of identity, characterizes great achievements.

Sustain the Momentum, Keep the Prize

So far we have seen the relationship between identity and mobility. However, the prizes or value-outcomes which these aspects engender can only endure the test of time when the momentum is sustained. By all standards, sustainability remains a factor that determines who succeeds and who fails. As a matter of fact, the difference between good and great is just a little extra effort. A typical example is the finals of the 100 meters race at the Beijing Olympics.

The Jamaican sprinter Usain Bolt left the starting blocks on a rather lackluster note (actually with a reaction time of 0.165 seconds), but built up momentum as the race progressed. By the time they crossed the 50 meters mark, Bolt’s impetus to set a standard had the better of him. Sustaining the momentum he had built up, he sped past the other competitors like a spirited gazelle. And by the time he crossed the finish line in 9.69 seconds (unofficially 9.683 seconds) with hands outspread in victory, he was well ahead of a crop of world-renowned sprinters with a large margin. A world record was not only set by this feat but Usain Bolt had defined the heights by which other sprinters would measure their successes or failures on the tracks for a very long time to come.

According to an online report, “Not only was the record set without a favorable wind (+0.0 m/s), but he also visibly slowed down to celebrate before he finished and his shoelace was untied. Bolt’s coach reported that, based upon the speed of Bolt’s opening 60 m, he could have finished with a time of 9.52 s After scientific analysis of Bolt’s run by the Institute of Theoretical Astrophysics at the University of Oslo, Hans Eriksen and his colleagues also predicted a sub 9.60 s time. Considering factors such as Bolt’s position, acceleration and velocity in comparison with second-place-finisher Thompson, the team estimated that Bolt could have finished in 9.55±0.04 s had he not slowed to celebrate before the finishing line.”

The lesson in this is sustained momentum. The tenacity to be upwardly mobile and the ability to keep the fire of zeal burning so intensely within, took him to such Olympian heights, especially with his winning of the 100 meters and 200 meters race in world record time. Two important races of his life; two significant world records; and twice a display of the character of sustained momentum.

We can only imagine the self-exertion, the hours of training and the effort required in getting that far. According to a Bank PHB (now Keystone Bank) advert, “to beat the 100 meters world record, a man must take six steps every second…” The task appears Herculean; however, it does not mean it is insurmountable. It only requires sustaining a particular speed of action for a length of time. In Bolt’s case, it probably exceeded six steps per second, but the thing to note is his sense of commitment to sustaining the force of his will (‘signature strengths’ in the words of Martin Seligma) on the tracks.

Yes, we can!

We can imbibe the character of change if only we are willing to try. We all can turn our identity into a currency in the global economy if we are willing to maximize our strengths. We have all it takes to define our tomorrow if we take better steps than where we were yesterday. We can effectively build the future by creating it today. All that is required of us is to reckon with our identity as a people, redefine our mobility and fix our sights on its sustainability. Yes, we truly can make the difference!